J-Lo’s Ex-Husband Ojani Noa EXP0SES Her DARK Secret & REVEALS Why Ben Left | HO
J-Lo’s love life drama is hitting the fan again and just when we thought she and Ben Affleck were living their happily ever after, it seems the fairy tale is over. Word on the street is that they’re about to file for divorce any day now— just months after J-Lo released her documentary “The Greatest Love Story Never Told” where she gushed about how Ben was “the one.”
But let’s be real, hasn’t J-Lo said this about every single man she’s dated or married? It’s almost like she’s more in love with the idea of love than the actual guys. So what’s really going on here? Is J-Lo just addicted to romance, or is there something deeper and darker lurking beneath the surface?
Enter stage left, her first hubby, Ojani Noa. Now, Ojani has some tea to spill, and it is piping hot! He claims that the only person J-Lo has ever truly loved is—wait for it—herself! And get this, Ojani was the one who predicted J-Lo and Ben’s reunion in 2021 wouldn’t last. At the time, everyone brushed him off as a bitter ex, but who’s laughing now?
But hold on, it gets even messier! An old interview with Ojani has resurfaced, and he’s not just spilling tea—he’s dumping the whole teapot! According to him, J-Lo dabbles in some seriously spooky stuff to keep her men around. We’re talking dark magic and love spells! Yes, you heard that right. Ojani is alleging that J-Lo uses actual witchcraft to keep her romances alive. It sounds wild, but in the land of Hollywood, anything is possible, right?
So what did Ojani really reveal about J-Lo and her love life? And how was he so sure that Ben would be the next one to walk away?
Jennifer loves being in love. She told him he was the love of her life and that they’d be together forever, but that was three husbands and five engagements ago. In reality, it’s been four marriages and six engagements. You have to love yourself; you have to love like I was on that path trying to figure out what it meant to love myself because I knew I could never have true love in my life until I resolved that aspect. That’s the most important aspect. I don’t think he likes that I’m doing all this, but he loves me, knows I’m an artist, and will support me as much as he can because he knows this is something that can’t stop me. He doesn’t want to stop me; he wants to do it, but that doesn’t mean he’s comfortable being the muse. Chen felt really inspired by this experience, which is how artists do their work; they draw inspiration from their personal lives. I know as a writer and director, I do the same, but private things always felt sacred and special to me because they are private in part.
The drama in J-Lo’s love life is making headlines again, and just when we thought she and Ben Affleck were living their happily ever after, it seems the fairy tale has ended. Rumors suggest they’re about to file for divorce any moment, just a few months after J-Lo released her documentary “The Greatest Love Story Ever Told,” where she spoke about how Ben was “the one.”
But let’s be real, hasn’t J-Lo said this about every man she’s dated or married? It’s almost as if she’s more in love with the idea of love than with the actual men. So what’s really going on here? Is J-Lo addicted to romance, or is there something deeper and darker beneath the surface?
Enter her first husband, Ojani Noa. Now, Ojani has a lot to say, and he’s very hot! He claims that the only person J-Lo has ever truly loved is—wait—herself. And moreover, Ojani predicted that J-Lo and Ben’s reunion in 2021 wouldn’t last. At that time, everyone dismissed him as a bitter ex, but who’s laughing now?
But wait, it gets even more complicated! An old interview with Ojani has resurfaced, and he’s not just revealing details; he’s spilling the tea! According to him, J-Lo gets involved in very creepy things to keep her men close. We’re talking real dark magic and love spells. Yes, you heard that right. Ojani alleges that J-Lo uses real witchcraft to keep her relationships alive. Sounds crazy, but in Hollywood, anything is possible, right?
So, what did Ojani really reveal about J-Lo and her love life? And how was he so sure that Ben would be the next to go? Let’s delve into all this.
This was quite an adjustment for me. Well, she still has her beauty, her butt, and her bank account, so goodbye for him, darling. This isn’t about you and me, darling. This is real; it’s not part of the script. Jennifer Lopez has had her share of high-profile romances and a series of marriages that could make anyone dizzy, but now, with the rumor of her imminent divorce from Ben Affleck, it’s time to take a messy journey through the past and see what J-Lo’s exes have said about what really drives this self-proclaimed romantic in the love department.
I was never used to being alone. I had a big family, cousins, aunts, and my grandmother, always around, so when I went on my own, I realized how uncomfortable I was being alone. I had to learn to do it, you know? But, what was the fear? Because this is related to your desire to be in the showbiz and in the spotlight, right? I don’t know, I don’t know if that’s it. I mean, some people would make that simple connection because it’s easy to do: oh, she doesn’t like being alone, so she likes being surrounded by many people. And that’s an easy way to be surrounded by many people, but I never felt that was my motivation.
Let’s go back to 1997 when Jennifer Lopez was starting to shine in Hollywood with her leading role in “Selena.” That same year she married her first husband, Cuban actor and producer Ojani Noa. Jennifer Lopez, how wonderful and congratulations, you just got married. Yes, I just got married, I’ve been married for a month and four days. How long did you know each other? A year. It’s enough, it’s enough, I didn’t need much convincing. However, JLo and Oh’s love story was brief, and just 11 months later, they decided to separate. But Ojani wasn’t going to fade into the background without making a fuss. He had plans to publish a juicy book about their relationship, but JLo wasn’t having any of it, so she sued him and won, putting an end to his literary ambitions.
And here’s where things get complicated. Ojani later revealed that jealousy was a major factor in their breakup because JLo chose to go public with none other than Puff Daddy while still married to Ojani. Ojani asked Daily Mail why she was going out with him on dates, and she said it was just business, which was what she was told she should do. I was jealous and shouting, but you’re married. It turns out O’s jealousy was entirely justified because JLo really did date Diddy for two whole years.
I had my own sparks, you know what I’m saying? Look, darling, my sparks were flying. She was married at that time, I was in my own relationship, so I had to have self-control and then we just became friends. I was a dancer, she was a dancer, I was ambitious, she was ambitious, I was a workaholic, she was a workaholic. At first, all those things worked to our benefit. Then we had this rehearsal where we had to hold each other like this, we were going to do some salsa, and then, like this, holding her like this, I looked up and into her eyes and fell in love immediately. It was the first time I fell in love, like love at first sight.
She was larger than life, but at first, I didn’t like her at all. You know, I thought she was my… I didn’t like her because, you know, Sean and I were very different that way. I was very family-oriented, and that’s how I was raised. Once I met him and we became friends first, we developed this bond. We both understood where we were in that moment in our lives, and we both knew that no one else understood exactly how we felt, so in that way, we connected.
Now, as for Diddy, he later told People in 2006 that of all the high-profile romances he’s been involved in, Jennifer was one of the greats, but is that really a compliment coming from Diddy? I mean, knowing what we know about him now, being considered great by Sean “Diddy” Combs seems more like a red flag than a compliment. Anyway, let’s move on to the next public romance of JLo and marriage number two with dancer Chris Judd. JLo and Chris met on the set of her music video “Love Don’t Cost a Thing” just after her breakup with Diddy in 2001. So when Jennifer comes in, I shake her hand, and we look at each other. In my head, I’m thinking, oh God, I’m going to marry this woman. That’s what I told myself. Oh, crap.
JLo and Chris had a whirlwind romance and married the same year they met, but JLo filed for divorce less than a year later. Chris later hinted that JLo really didn’t make an effort to make their marriage work, telling Us Weekly: I can’t give you the answer as to why her relationships don’t work. I think it’s that it’s work, it’s whether you want to work on it or not. When you commit to marrying, you can’t just walk away. Chris also recalled how difficult it was to live their relationship in the public eye. However, JLo wasn’t exactly making an effort to keep things private. You know, it’s very hard, Chris said, your privacy gets violated, you’re no longer a normal person. Our wedding was a circus. I think several people were arrested trying to climb a mountain to sneak in. We actually rented the airspace.
While Chris was busy lamenting his pain over JLo, she wasted no time reigniting her romance with singer Marc Anthony, with whom she had a brief romance in the late 90s. Marc soon became JLo’s third husband.
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