Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez’s marriage was destined to fail almost from the beginning

Ben Afflack and Jennifer Lopez at the Justice League premiere Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez

It has already been reported that Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez may have already agreed to get a divorce, they are currently taking time apart in order to think through their decisions and potentially end the marriage.

But the numerous media outlets who are trying to find answers to why this marraige has lasted so little time are starting to find the clues.

They believe they already know the exact moment when the couple realized their marriage was doomed to fail and they managed to get exclusive information.

According to In Touch Weekly, Ben Affleck was the firstone to raise a red flag in Jennifer Lopez’s behavior that he really didn’t appreciate. It all happened at a specific moment in time during the first months of their marriage.

The moment Ben and Jennifer started falling apart

According to this account from In Touch Weekly, the making of her documentary, ‘The Greatest Story Ever Told’ was when they both realized this wasn’t going to work.

Ben shared in one scene of this footage a moment of shock when he realizes that during the work of her album ‘This Is Me… Now’, J. Lo shared the love letters he had written her to songwriters. Affleck spoke about these aspects of their love story being private and how he always felt that this was not something he expected at all.

In another moment during the documentary, Jennifer acknowledged she knew Affleck wasn’t comfortable with her doing this but she didn’t stop because she had the certainty their love was stronger than that.

In fact, Lopez said at a certain point Ben Affleck couldn’t really do anything about it because he cannot stop her from doing what she wants. After that, things changed between the couple and both realized they are extremely different individuals.

That’s when the marriage started falling apart. While Lopez seems almost addicted to being the center of attention, Ben Affleck prefers living a quiet life away from the spotlight. It’s like water and oil, they simply don’t mix together. When they realized they want different things in life, that’s when everything started to fall apart.